Pro EFT Effective Grieving: honoring the loss, so we can move on

In much of the world of Energy Psychology, grief is treated like an emotional emergency. It must be eliminated as quickly as possible. Here at the Pro EFT Center, we understand what grieving is for. Pro EFT Effective Grieving, honors your losses, so you can move on.

The current cultural/medical norm is that you need to stop  hurting over a loss, as soon as possible. We have turned grieving upside down. Now grieving is for the benefit of the community. The community must be protected from having to deal with their own perceptions of pain and loss. The bereaved are not allowed to grieve, in what ever way, they need to grieve.

Almost 2 decades ago, I worked as an RN in outpatient psychiatry. We used a combination of biology, psychology, and socialization to help patients heal their grief. I observed that those who truly got over their loss, accepted the loss, while they were hurting. Those that never got over their loss, always stopped grieving first. Then they accepted  their loss stoically. The key was in the timing, not in the stages each person was going through.

When we started applying this principle, instead of just teaching the 5 Stages of Grief, the results were phenomenal. The group knew to listen to a person’s hurt, without any attempt to intervene. The person grieving knew to accept the hurt while they were hurting. When they were ready, they shut the grief off, as they needed. Hurts that had been stuck in their minds and bodies, left for good.

We listened to what the person was hurting about, until they were finished saying what they needed to say. Who knew, siting in support for the person, who is grieving, until they feel complete, is what they need. Simple, loving, and compassionate. We refrained from trying to fix the grieving person, as if they were defective and broken. We treated them with respect,while we honored the immensity of their loss, together.

Here at the Pro EFT Center, we have combined the principles of effective grieving and the quantum leap forward of meridian tapping. We don’t go looking for the hurt. We are instead, prepared to relieve and eliminate any hurt that comes up, simply and compassionately. Clients release the most painful part of their life experiences. They learn how to shut down the grieving process, when ever they want. We continue to relieve and eliminate, stress, negative emotions, pain, and trauma, while honoring life’s major losses, as well. Just as with the other conditions we relieve, we test and retest the grieving thought, until we are sure the hurt has been completely relieved.

If you would like to experience this wonderful technique, with a practitioner, you can click on the Sessions link and sign up for a few sessions. If you would like to learn how to do this technique for yourself and others, it is now a part of every Level Two Workshop I teach. Pro EFT Effective Grieving, honoring the loss, so we can move on.